CAN I BREAST FEED MY SPOUSE AFTER CHILD BIRTH
Zandra I hope I can get help from your readers because I don't know them and secondly because I will get to hear from the men's point of view since I don't have the boldness to talk to any man concerning this issue. I've had the privilege of
discussing with a few friends to get their opinion about breast feeding my spouse after child birth. I am an expectant Mom for the first time and I'm a bit sacred with the response from some female friends.
I don't know what to believe. I think its ideal for my babies to suck my breasts but for my husband to equally suck them while I'm breast feeding seems rather irritating, nevertheless, I don't want to deprive my husband sexually. Is it medically advised to breast feed my husband while breastfeeding my child? Thanks, Bucky.
I don't know what to believe. I think its ideal for my babies to suck my breasts but for my husband to equally suck them while I'm breast feeding seems rather irritating, nevertheless, I don't want to deprive my husband sexually. Is it medically advised to breast feed my husband while breastfeeding my child? Thanks, Bucky.
First things first madam Bucky. Please focus on the baby first, oga can wait.
ReplyDeleteI think you should discuss this with your spouse to know his stand on this. Its a matter that concerns both of you. Do what is best for your marriage.
ReplyDeleteNow when U say breast feed, its relative coz men necessarily don't breast feed for milk but rather for sexual gratification. Except your spouse in question does. If Yes then the baby comes first since that's its only source of survival. It really matters at that point but if not its ok to allow ya spouse the joys of ya breasts while nursing to avoid him looking else where. Men rarely find nursing mothers sexually appealing so if yours finds U appealing at that stage, please allow him full access as long as he doesn't finish the milk the baby is to survive on.
ReplyDeleteWhy not? My husband had a nice time especially with my last child.
ReplyDeleteReally don't like the idea,God help U make the right decision Ma.
ReplyDeleteHe should allow u for at least 6months then continue if he really likes it
ReplyDeleteFor me, allowing ur Husband access is like using one stone to kill 2 bird. My dear in this case pls consult ur Doctor squarely on dis matter b4 anything. A stitch at hand saves nine(9). Husband I beg wait small na. It's still urs and even 4 evermoe till death do u part.
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ReplyDeleteI would advise your husband to wait a little while till your baby is old enough for bottle feed, At age 0-8months babies need more breast milk for mental and physical development, though it is medical proven that adult mouth bacteria may help babies reduce instance of allergy development in babies, I wouldn’t advice your husband to feed on your breast expect for sexual gratification and most importantly if both of you are comfortable in this act, And please always wash your breast before feeding your baby.
Most men like me do respect nursing mothers and i am ready to wait till i can get the best satisfaction i need from her. The only reason men push their wife to the limit is when they treat them like dolls,
ReplyDeletesexual imagination and feelings not controlled by men aggravate such act which are not right, i am not saying men can't enjoy the whole of their wife body but if their imagination goes beyond control then thing like this comes into play. Our wives or girlfriends are not prostitutes, so they should be handled and treated with care and love.
@ anonymous 13:28, you are very correct. But watin she go do na, what if she is not married to a man like you. She has to allow him cos their bodies belong to each other.
DeletePlease do not consult a doctor alone, ensure that both of you see the doctor together to know the medical implications so that he gets to understand when you say NO.In as much as you will want to save your marriage, consider your health and that of your child. If there are no medical implications then i think you should not deprive your husband. Its a matter you both have to look into and reach an agreement.
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